The Ups, Downs and in Betweens

When it comes to falling in Love/Dating, most of us usually end up with people we either went to school with or grew up with..not a great or board of Options is there..not that I mind, because even in that you had Options ..but when the atmosphere changes and now you have work, college for some do you explore these Options?? My question is, when you now have these Options, do you fall back to the one that made your heart float, made your knees quiver and gave you those butterflies..would that person measure up to the new Options that are now at your disposal or do even think about these new found Options because the one that you fell in love with is all you want....and need and your final Option..Can your Love survive The Option Test?

Don’t ever deny your Partner the right to be who God created him/her to be. To do so is cruel and unusual punishment. Just as you want to be yourself and “do you,” so, too, does your spouse. As long as your spouse’s actions aren’t sinful, back off give him/her some space. After all, before too long, you, too, will be wanting that same space to be who you are. This statement is so true for me, for those of you who know me personally...knows that I am the biggest cheerleader for my partner. Just imagine if Michelle had stop Barack from running for the presidency, Jada for not supporting Will and all his box office movies (Wild Wild West doesn't count), Coretta for not allowing Martin to have a Dream or Marching. Believe in your Partner. This is harder than it sounds. As you got to know your spouse, you began to see something inside him or her that set him apart from all others. It’s one of the reasons you fell in love and decided to get married. That special something...