The Ups, Downs and in Betweens

It is becoming all to clear to me more and more women are asking for a ring....is the popularity of Beyonce's song...I wonder. May be it brought things to light, because I am sure they have been asking for years, but now have anthem to Scream and Shout ...now what most ladies don't realize is that Jay and B were together for quite some years before they were wedded 6 Years ( ponder that for a bit )...another thing that made me crack up the other day was the Cash4Gold commercial were the lady boldly stated "I sent in the ring from my first marriage and the cash I got for that went to my new ring"...say what now!!... Is it that simple as to put a ring on it? yes it is, but some women have this crazy notion on what the ring Must Look like, smh, never mind working on the actual relationship..they have the ring, dress and location all mapped out...when I went dress shopping for our wedding, Went to David's Bridal in Long Island with my Mom and 3 of my brides maid...to...