The Ups, Downs and in Betweens

When people describe what they are looking for friend or partner, one of the first things on the list is "Loyalty" We have people with the word even tatted on their bodies... Very rarely do people mention "Integrity" Both seem to be pretty straightforward, both seem like what you look for in a friend or lover right...well let me break it down too you the way I see it. In this day an age, I don't want a Loyal friend, give me a person with Integrity any day... people be loyal to friends and family even though they know the person is D. E. A. D. wrong all on the strength of that's FAM. I would rather a person with Integrity because that person would have a mindset to say "Nah Fam" and let you know what is right. Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong, it shouldn't change because of your Loyalty to a person. Just check out the definition of both... and understand where I am coming from! loy·al·ty ˈloiəltē/ noun ...