The Ups, Downs and in Betweens

When people describe what they are looking for friend or partner, one of the first things on the list is "Loyalty" We have people with the word even tatted on their bodies... Very rarely do people mention "Integrity" Both seem to be pretty straightforward, both seem like what you look for in a friend or lover right...well let me break it down too you the way I see it. In this day an age, I don't want a Loyal friend, give me a person with Integrity any day... people be loyal to friends and family even though they know the person is D. E. A. D. wrong all on the strength of that's FAM. I would rather a person with Integrity because that person would have a mindset to say "Nah Fam" and let you know what is right. Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong, it shouldn't change because of your Loyalty to a person. Just check out the definition of both... and understand where I am coming from! loy·al·ty ˈloiəltē/ noun ...

I have seen this video a few times...after a recent conversation a great friend of mines, she then sent it to me and I watched. Shook my head a few times like mmmm ain't this the truth. If you have to wonder if you have a place in a person's life, then that can't be right, that is the 1sr RedFlag!. ..I mean even in this dating world/relationship world, we all are gonna second, third...heck fifth guess things but you get that reassurance that you are NOT tripping, by the way, the person you are dating MOVES... People get busy, but nobody is busy all the time. At this stage in life, we all have responsibilities that will take us away from the person your dating...but if you can't remember the last time you both had quality time together, then that is a problem and if when you ask or suggest something you get an excuse and not a solution then you have more problems. Bonding together is really simple and easy to do, cook together, exercise, read a book, do a ...