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The Saddest Thing In The World

Someone said to me a very long time ago: “Nat, there is no sadder thing in the world than a missed opportunity. When I look back on my life, the only things I regret are the things I haven’t done, never the things I’ve done”.

What is a missed opportunity?

A missed opportunity is a chance you have not taken because of fear. It’s most often fear that is holding us back from progressing.

Now, you can apply this to anything in your life, from the business you want to build to the cheap car you didn’t buy last weekend. But the missed opportunity I am referring to, is not living the life you want to.

For example, when you met someone who could have a great impact on your life, and you didn’t take the chance because fear was holding you back.

What is the point?

The point is that we all have something in our past where we have made the wrong decision out of fear. We wonder how our lives would be today if we had only taken action and made the right choice back then.

Well, we can’t go back and change the past, but we can change our mindset. We can now make the decision to live upon the credo:

“I will take any opportunity that is coming up, and nobody, neither a person nor fear can stop me”.

How about that?

I already hear you complaining: “How do I know that the opportunity is actually leading to a good thing”.

Well, one of life’s secrets is that you don’t know. Not until you try.

Always keep in mind that your very purpose in life is to move forward and make new experiences. Do not betray yourself of the future that is waiting for you. Go past the fear and grab every good opportunity that comes your way. Never forget: the saddest thing in the world is a missed opportunity.

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