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What does it mean to LOVE…Do people even know what it means to be in LOVE Anymore or how to LOVE.  It's so fickle, the minute the "thrill of the Love dies" its on to something exciting and challenging.  Love is a Verb aka Action! How many times have you heard, Love is a Verb aka Action! You really have to put action to make that Love Great (Let's make Love Great Again) it will not just flourish because you are in LOVE, work for it, care for it, nurture it and watch how it flourishes... you know what Love Feels Like, True unconditional Love!

This word is used so frequently that it is watered down, no validation behind it.

I personally don’t play that Game with the word LOVE! Because I believe in the power of the word “LOVE”.

However, we have several kinds of LOVE!


  • Love for Parent
  • Love for Sibling
  • Love for Children
  • Love for Friend

But the LOVE of a significant other is the LOVE we all crave and search for.  At times we can confuse LOVE with Lust aka with Sex (Great Sex can cloud your mind).

You can “Have Love for Someone” (I was told this recently, the person stated “I Have Love For You” dafudge kinda game you trying to pull play-boy was my response…That terminology I still don't understand...A person can also Have Love for Their DOG, it's really not the same thing and to compare the two...I mean DOGS are way more loyal and obedient...They also lick themselves!! So yeah, miss me with that one.

Being In Love (that love right there, tingles all over your body… you can’t help but smile and blush with the thought of someone)

Best kind of Love is the one that is in return…Nothing in the world beats getting the same Love you give out. As Teddy P stated
"To be loved and be loved in return

It's the only thing that my heart desires

Just appreciate the little things I do

Oh, you're the one who's got me inspired

Keep on liftin', liftin' me higher"



My personal feeling is that I will never Force anyone to LOVE ME...I am here to Love and in turn  receive that Love BACK!

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